Monday, November 8, 2010

At last...

It is 7am Tuesday morning and YES we picked up Talhia yesterday and spent our first night with her. I am sitting typing and she is having her bottle on the bed. Chris is in the shower.

Back to yesterday. The plane from Beijing to Guangzhou was very nice a big Airbus A 330 and I am sorry to say there was no goats on board. We were delayed at least an hour for takeoff and this caused a bit of stress. When we landed the group of 4 families (the fifth was already there), quickly went through our luggage in the middle of the airport floor for the essentials for meeting our children at the government office. The plan was to go straight to pick up our kids because we were behind schedule. So off we ran, about a mile (it seemed like it) to one end of the airport. When we got there, we had to turn around and go all the way to the over end (and this is a big airport). We definitely got some exercise in the 28C day. The problem was the Asian games are starting in Guangzhou at the end of this week so everything has been changed at the airport in preparation for that.

We got to the government offices around 4pm Monday and we rode up the elevator to the 8th floor. We are getting pretty excited/scared/anxious now. The doors of the elevator open and we are greeted with a scene I was not prepared for….there must have been 50 over families there picking up their new additions. Wow, all the noise, smiles, crying and screaming. After about 10 minutes it was our turn and out came Talhia. Her Nanny handed her over to us, Talhia was looking a bit puzzled and it was very hot in the room. We got a couple of quick pictures with her, the nanny went to the other room, and then we started to get her to know us. Well did she start screaming! She screamed in Christine's arms, after a few minutes it was my turn to take the handoff. That was no better the screaming continued in my arms for the next ½ hour as she grabbed me and did not want to look at me while Christine left the room to go pay a bunch of fees and sign papers. We tried giving her new toys, seeing picture of herself, cheerios, and a cookie; all to no avail. Hmmm great start but we had been warned this is common.

Then the nanny came back and realized Talhia had been there a lot longer than they had expected and she was probably hungry and needing a bottle. The orphanage gave us a very nice care package. Some of Talhia's cloths, a bottle and formula, a photo album with pictures, and a small gift (that we still have not opened). And yes the bottle did the trick.

We got to the hotel, settled in, had a quick dinner and were back in the room settling down for the night by 8pm. At around 9pm, she started screaming in her crib, that went on forever (OK probably only 10 minutes) and Chris was able to get her settled down. Back in the crib and the screaming started a few minutes later. Talhia wins this round. Christine brings her into our bed and has her go to sleep on Chris's chest. Most of the rest of the night was uneventful, I didn't wake up, the other 2 did for about 20 minutes at 1am.

We are preparing to go for breakfast, and off to another government office to finalize the adoption.

Talhia seems healthy and happy. Her Cleft Lip has not been repaired so we will worry about that back home.

One more note: we have not been able to access our blog or facebook in China, so we have been emailing our updates to the blog site. We will not be able to see any comments until we get back home.

Todd & Chris
 

8 comments:

  1. Oh you guys, she is crazy adorable. We just read this post as a family, and are so happy and excited for you. The girls are so in love with her and Matt thinks she is pretty neat. Love & Hugs!!
    (and I understand you can't see this until you get home, but I'm posting it anyway)

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  2. What a great smile on your face Christine!! We are so happy for all three of you. The kids can't wait to play with Tahlia.

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  3. This is what we've been waiting for! Christine you are just beaming! I LOVE seeing you so happy I'm in tears myself. And yes, I don't mind that you can't see these comments until later. It's still one way we can share in your joy. She looks so cute in her little bed! I can hardly wait to meet her!
    Lorna

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  4. Oh Christine, you're a natural. That smile! (Lorna, you and I are very much alike. I had problems reading this at first because my eyes were full of tears.) You two are so deserving of this! Getting your little one to sleep on your chest... oh my heart is full!!! I can hardly wait to hear more and see your little angel!

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  5. We are so happy and can hardly wait until you get home, but have no choice. She's lovely!!

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  6. yay I knew you could do it! you lived through your first night together and it is always the hardest especially for mommy. we can hardly wait for you to come home. the kids are super excited to meet thier new cousin. lots of love xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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  7. Todd I can just see you running back and forth in the airport - what a start - and what a fabulous ending. Chris the bond started - Tahlia knew she was safe if she fell asleep in your arms. Todd, within a very short time she will not only be grabbing onto you, but chasing after you to get your attention - I know my children did - you've been an awesome uncle and will make an even better dad. I'm so happy for you all - as they say, I think Tahlia just hit it big! Have fun in China - keep us all posted. Can't wait to meet your daughter in person.

    Love Aunty Lorrie

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  8. And then there were three.
    I am so pleased for you guys. Christine you look just so happy holding Tahlia. I got quite emotional reading about your first meeting with Tahlia and holding her. It has been a long road to her.
    Enjoy every minute you have in China. It is a wonderful experience.
    Thinking of you all.

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