Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Time to leave Talhia's home province

It is 5:30am on Thursday and we will be leaving for Beijing at 8am.

The last few days have gone by quickly, with each day focused on more adoption paperwork. On Tuesday we signed the official adoption papers and had to have an official picture taken of the 3 of us for the adoption letter. Of course this was the one time on Tuesday morning that Talhia was crying, and big time. This will be a great picture to show her as she grows up.

On the way back to the hotel we stopped at a grocery store and picked up a few things. Most things had an English name on them and I could figure out what was formula and what was beer.

We got back to the hotel late Tuesday afternoon and at this time preparation for the Asian games in Guangzhou. Now every time we enter our hotel we must go through a metal detector, be wanded down, and all our bags go through an x-ray machine. Earlier in the day in our hotel we had walked past a bunch of military and police with bomb sniffing dogs going through the hotel. My understanding is that there are a bunch of dignitaries for the games staying here. This is also why we are having to leave on Thursday and not Friday. With the games there is no room.

Back to Tuesday… for the last part of the afternoon we went shopping to a close by highrise discount mall. Guangzhou is a factory city with a large amount of manufacturing of things so you can find very good prices on many toys/cloths/etc. It is quite the adventure trying to cross the street. All we have been told is follow the locals! Apparently, the biggest travel health claims for foreigners is getting hit by a car or bike.
We toured around the mall an bought a few small things and then the group of us (3 of the families) decided to have a cultural experience and we had supper at the McDonalds. Very similar to back home. It is quite interesting when you walk up to the counter if you are a foreigner, they pull out a large laminated menu with pictures and you just point to the double cheeseburger value meal and type of drink. Worked well, but my Coke Zero turned into a Sprite.

After dinner the entire group went on a boat tour on the river. This lasted about 2 hours and we got to see many interesting building. They also have many lit up with designs.

Wednesday night was a bit more restless for Talhia than Tuesday. Again after about a ½ of sleeping she woke up screaming and it took Chris about ½ hour to settle her down. Then she was more restless during the night.

Wednesday we would have to go to the police station in the afternoon to get our final adoption papers. So in the morning our entire group went to a shopping island. Here we bought too much (in my opinion). Talhia got a number of Chinese dresses, Chris and I each got a Chinese top (When I was trying to say no to this, I was informed I had no choice and that at the very least I would be wearing it at Chinese New Years. I am now suspecting that there are a number of things that I have not been told about and will be doing…Especially since Chris is reminding me that I am no longer number 2 on the priority list (actually I think I         was below this already with the cats/dogs/alpacas) and have moved down another rung. At least she is fine with not being number 1 anymore. We also bought some jade, squeaky shoes (not for me), and a few other items for Talhia to remember her home province.

The trip to the police station was uneventful but did take a while because we were behind a large group of families (the same group we were behind on Monday and Tuesday). After that we had time for one quick last shopping excursion to the local discount mall. Here we managed to find a few more wooden toys and dress/tops for Talhia and Chris. And the dinners have kept getting better, since we were so tired and had to pack for this AM we settled for a cup of noodles, a bag of chips and a beer.

It is too bad that the Asian games start tomorrow. If we could have stayed till Friday we would have had a chance to take the 2 hour drive today and visit Talhia's orphanage. This will have to wait for some time in the future.

Chris is just waking up and I need to help with final packing (since I got the easy job last night of playing with Talhia, I better do a bit, but I can't actually do too much because I won't put the right thing in the right suitcase ((remember down another rung))).

Later today in Beijing we will meet up with all the families. Our group will grow from the 5 families up to the 17.

That is all for now.  Hey I thought it was Christine's idea to do all this blogging

Todd & Chris

11 comments:

  1. You guys make a beautiful family! It's all so amazing! I'm so glad that you got some keepsakes for Tahlia and yourselves! You won't regret it! Squeeky shoes, hey? We never did find any of those while we were there... mind you we weren't looking! Glad that all is going well! Can't wait to hear more and see more photos! Keep blogging!

    Amber

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  2. Well I have just so many things to say. In the first picture, I think Todd is beaming more than Christine! Tahlia looks adorable in her COORDINATED outfit and that headband. Second picture - Chris, is that a french fry in Tahlia's mouth????? Third picture. We've all seen pictures of Tahlia and most of them she was alone. So for me, the perspective was way off. I thought she was 'big' for 18 months, but seeing her in your arms Chris, she's still itty bitty. Mom and baby are really looking good together. I can see the love in your face Chris. Amazing how one can fall in love with someone so quickly! Love getting these updates. Thanks again for sharing!

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  3. Oh you guys. What beautiful pictures. Your blogs make me cry with happiness. Love you all and can't wait till you get home with our new princess. Kim XOXOXOOXOXOXOX

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  4. Sweet little Tahlia. Can't wait to celebrate our first Chinese New Year with you. xoxo Grandma and Grandpa Flemington

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  5. Finally a pic including Daddy too! She is so beautiful and looks pretty comfortable. She must already feel so loved! We are excited to be able to share in all of Tahlia's holiday firsts as part of her forever family!

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  6. I love your family photo! It's nice to see the proud Papa in the pics now! Tahlia does look so cute in her little outfit too. You guys look so happy and we're all so happy for you!

    And Todd - didn't you know that after a mother has a baby, it's the father's job to notify family and friends? Phoning or blogging - what's the difference? You're doing a fine job of keeping us up to date!

    Still looking forward to when we can meet Tahlia in person.
    Take care.
    Lorna

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  7. i love to see that happy family! you guys look great!

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  8. What an awesome picture of the 3 of you - Tahlia's wayyyyy toooo cute - I love her hairband. Chris-you and Tahlia look like you were meant for one another - I can feel your love for her through the picture. Todd, it's good to see you are already "spoiling" that sweet daughter of yours - get used to it!. 8 more days and your home. Hopefully things in Beijing will be less busy/stressful without the games - oh yeah, 17 families, hmm - games/families, I pick families! Keep blogging - everyone is feeling your excitement and what you are experiencing.

    Thinking of you all, see you soon,
    Love Aunty Lorrie

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  9. Good Morning from Toronto:

    You look as though you were all made for each other. I don't think you guys could smile any more if you tried!
    Tahlia is adorable. Love the hairband!

    Enjoy your travels.

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  10. The kids are outside right now playing in the snow and can barely wait till they can take Tahlia out there with them!! The three of you look perfect together, just the way it was always suppose to be. Be careful Todd, once you let Tahlia taste McD's there will be no other choice for supper outings, trust me.

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  11. Tahlia is SOOOOOO beautiful! We can't wait to meet her in person! You guys look perfect as a family! Todd-can't wait to see the shirt! I think you should bring it out at all the special events! Chris-you're glowing! We're so happy for all of you! Next shopping trip you may want to pick out some new luggage! From the sounds of it you'll need it! ;)
    Lori and Family!

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